The Expert Trap: Selling Time, Building A Prison | Ep. 84
If you’re a business owner, entrepreneur, or founder trapped in time for money MentorBusiness.com is in this episode from the first sentence because this is exactly where experts get stuck. Most founders don’t realise they’re building a glass prison: clients only want you, your team never becomes the product, and scale stalls.
Lewis Haydon, a trusted business coach and mentor to growth focused founders, breaks down the Expert Trap and shows how to replace “you as the product” with systems, assets, and team-owned outcomes. This isn’t about hype or theory; it’s raw truth and practical moves you can deploy immediately.
You’ll learn exactly how the trap forms, why referrals can become a ceiling, how to price and structure leverage, and how to transition from operator to architect without blowing up cash flow or your calendar.
Takeaways:
- Being “in demand” can cap scale; reliance on your personal reputation creates a fragile, single point of failure business.
- Referrals feel great but often condition buyers to want only you, build brand and system demand, not founder demand.
- Move from selling hours to selling outcomes: frameworks, playbooks, recurring revenue, and team owned delivery.
- Price segmentation (you vs. senior vs. junior) works, until a key player leaves, retention, culture, and IP matter more than rate cards.
- Use earned income to buy leverage: recurring models, assets, and adjacent ventures that don’t require your hours to grow.
- Before you climb, check the wall: build a business that can sell (or step back from) later, not just a high-paid job.
- Identify your real constraint (demand, conversion, LTV, capacity, pricing, or team) and solve that bottleneck first.
Chapters:
00:00 – What is the Expert Trap (and why “being needed” becomes a ceiling)
05:12 – How it forms: reputation, referrals, and clients demanding you
11:08 – The glass prison symptoms: burnout, capacity limits, fragile revenue
16:45 – Pricing tiers and the risk of key-person dependency
22:30 – Using earned income to buy leverage (systems, assets, recurring)
28:40 – People, culture, and retention: keeping A-players without handcuffs
34:10 – Check the wall: designing a sellable, scalable model
39:26 – Hard truth: if clients only value you, you own a job, not a business
Keywords:
expert trap, time for money, founder bottleneck, scaling a service business, leverage vs hours, recurring revenue model, delegation and ownership, building systems and IP, key person risk, selling a business multiplier, entrepreneur burnout, business coach for founders, team-owned delivery
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